Today I dropped off the rest of his things off at his lawyer's office that felt good too. It's like I have been carrying around this bagpack that someone else filled full of rocks and made me carry and now it's all but empty. All I have to do now is finish up the baby stuff which will be a challenge but that part I can control how it all goes which is nice to know and I won't really have to deal with the Ex until then. Oh and an update on my lisence is that they sent me a letter saying they needed more Info from me but they sent it to my old apartment. Last week I sent out that info to them and as soon as they get it I should get a lisence. That whole process takes WAY too long but as long as I get it I'm happy.
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Free!
Well not exactly but I feel alot lighter emotionally then I have since about Jan. 9th. I managed to get the Ex to agree that I would take all of our tax return and pay the bills as long as I got whatever was left over. Let me just say he got the better end of that deal but I at least got some thing. Not only that but he let all his bills get late fee's over the last two months so every bill I paid was about $10-$20 more then it was supposed to be. But I am SOO glad that I paid them myself because that way I KNOW they are paid I don't think the Ex would have paid them otherwise haha. But I am DEBT FREE!! So minus my gym membership and cell phone I have no bills right now. And if the adoption goes through then I won't have to worry about medical bills either. And as soon as my lawyer lets me know that the Judge signed that paper I'll be Kari Lynn Christiansen again and I am so ready for that! I'll be at the top of the list alphabetically again haha I missed that.
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Oh my heck . . . that license IS taking forever!!! Who does it anyway? Like the state of Idaho? I'd be calling up asking "Where the heck is my license!!!!", haha. Just teasing. But really. I hope it comes soon :)
Wow that license really has taken a long time, I thought you had already gotten it by now. So how long do you think it will be till you do get it? And thats awesome to be debt free!!! Way good feeling!!!! :o)
Kari, I am so happy for you! I can't even imagine what you are feeling right now. Sorry we didn't get to talk more when you were at AKA. Annie gave me some updates though. Let me know if you need anything!
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